For certain events, we want to have a "plan B" just ask any airplane pilot. They will tell you that they always know where the nearest airport is in case they have trouble and have to land. In a marriage very few couples ever have a "plan B". You think that you will live "happily ever after" but all to often it takes more than you thought you'd need to "get the job done". As time progresses and you realize that you don't know him the way you thought you did, and you don't know where that love went. Why don't you feel like a princess when you are in his arms the way you used to? You feel used and abandoned, and then the pain sets in. You wonder "why is this happening to me"? It's like both of you are speaking a second language that neither of you understand.  

When this begins to happen the pain sets in. This pain begins to cloud your feelings, your judgement, and so you begin to look at your marriage based on "the way you feel" instead of "the way things could be". We understand how you feel because we've felt this way ourselves. We have learned the secrets of communication within two people, how each individual communicates and even what each person "needs to hear". Learning this technique stops the pain of rejection and anger in a relationship, and not only with married couples but with family members as well.  Contact us by phone or email.